My friends father is in the hospital 6 months now waiting for long term care. When he gets moved his wife of 61 yrs will be put on a "reunification list"! To be left in this situation is Heart breaking. She drives 30 min every day from the retirement home they lived in to sit with him every day, holding hands looking out the window. Sad as she refers to Their life as "Alice in Wonderland" spiraling down that hole