Photo taken in Gangnam, Seoul, Korea. What constitutes as a fear? For me, the fear of not finding that special person is very real. This fear is even more real now that I am living in a foreign country. In a country where couples can be seen at every turn makes my singleness stick out even more. Don't get me wrong, being single has brought me a lot of joy, adventure and self awareness, but there comes a time in everyone's life where we desire to settle down. Where is my shoulder to lean on?